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    Welcome to my little corner of the world! This is where I feature the newest images of my gorgeous clients as well as share a little about my life. Take a look around and feel free to leave a comment. Blog love is ALWAYS appreciated!

    Also, this blog is a work in progress and a labor of love, so if you see something out of sorts, I apologize. I'm working on getting it in tip-top shape!

    Much love,
    Nicole

Trespassin’

Today, my sister and I went trespassin’. Well, the point of our outing was not to break laws, but instead to have fun and take some pictures. And spend some quality time together. Wouldn’t our momma be proud?

We went out to the north side of town where there used to be coal mines. All it is now is rolling hills, the occasional lake and some dirt roads. You should have seen us, though. Every time a car would approach, we’d freeze. Look at each other. Then sigh a sigh of relief when they drove on by. We weren’t doing anything bad, per se, but you see, I’m kind of a chicken when it comes to getting in trouble and confrontation. I get all nervous and break into sweats. It isn’t pretty!

But what is pretty? My little sister. We had so much fun taking these, even if we did have to walk through mud and get rained on to get them. And my sister, who is a momma herself, said she wanted to take photos like these so her little girl can look at them one day and say, “Wow, mom sure was fun!” (I don’t think there’s any question about that, Ash.)

And a side note, my sister just got her hair cut short yesterday. There’s no denying now that she’s my mother’s daughter. It was so strange to edit these because I felt like I was looking at my mom, but yet I was looking at my sister, too.

Have a great week, everyone!

If I Could Get Married All Over Again | Part 1

If I could get married all over again…the only thing that would remain the same is I’d marry the same guy.:)

I was only 22 when Tyler and I took our vows. Fresh out of college, too…in fact, Tyler and I were married two weeks to the day after I received my diploma from Indiana State University. I was naive to the world of creative, detailed weddings. I had no idea that rules were meant to be broken, especially when it came to wedding traditions. When planning our big day, I had no idea all of the fun possibilities there were. And to be honest, I had no idea what kind of bride I wanted be – or even could be.

Another factor was money. We had none. We had just purchased and remodeled a home. Tyler was our only source of income. And I was a new college grad searching for employment. Needless to say, we were on a budget. A very small budget.

But now I do a lot of perusing of wedding-related blogs, and it got me to thinking about all the things I’d do differently if I could do it over again and money was not a factor.

Ah, the dress. My dress was pretty, don’t get me wrong. It was your ordinary white, strapless dress with some detailed beading and a big poofy skirt. But now, I’d do something so much more fashionable and unique. Something like these next few dresses.

Dresses: Essense of Australia, KittyChen Couture, and Galina (exclusively at David’s Bridal)

Aren’t they beautiful? I think my favorite is the third dress, the one with one shoulder and silver detailing from KittyChen Couture (whose dresses are TO DIE FOR!).

Next week, I’ll show you WHERE I would have chosen to get married instead of a church.

My Heart is With Haiti

I had intended to start up Fun-Fact Fridays again today, but then the news of the Haiti earthquake came out, and I knew what I’d be blogging about.

Not many know this, but I have a soft spot for Haiti. I’ve never been there, but my life keeps finding ways to be connected to it.

In college, I nearly went there for a summer to be a missionary. I felt God calling me to bigger things than the issues in my own life, and I was completely willing to go. There were several times at my campus ministry when the message felt like it was directed right at me, telling me to go serve others. I was all but ready to start the work necessary to prepare for the trip, and then I didn’t feel God calling me to it anymore. It was almost as if God just wanted to see if I was willing.

Then also while in college, I wrote a story for the Tribune Star about a local church donating their steeple to a ministry in Haiti. They took the steeple off their own building, shipped it to Haiti, and then several members went all the way there to erect it. I was able to speak with both members of the Terre Haute church as well as Willem Charles, the leader of Mountain Top Ministries in Gramothe, Haiti. After the story ran, the guys from the church gave me a picture of their final product along with their signatures and notes of appreciation. I still have it, and I cherish it. I emailed Willem and his wife Beth (who is a native Terre Haute resident) and quickly received an email saying they were okay. God is good!

Tyler and I also sponsor a child in Haiti through Compassion International. Her name is Claudine, and she lives in Cap-Haitian, which is on the northern border of Haiti and luckily far enough from the earthquake’s epicenter that she should be okay. I received an email from Compassion a couple days ago saying they are working hard to account for all of the children in Haiti who are sponsored, so I guess there are no guarantees. Nonetheless, I sent her a message through Compassion’s web site letting her know I was praying and waiting for word that she is okay. (If you’d like to give to Compassion, you can do so here.)

And as I watched on the news tonight the devastation in Haiti, I was overcome with grief for the people there and at the same time gratitude for all I have. We are SO lucky in this country to never have to go through the poverty, famine and anarchy that has plagued Haiti for so many years. To add to their grief this awful destruction makes me mourn for them. They already had so little, and now everything they did have is gone. So I pray with the rest of the world that Haiti will overcome this, stronger than ever. I know I will be giving a little extra this month to help these people who have nothing, and I know that already many more are doing so. But what I wouldn’t give to be there now, in person, helping these people amidst their devastation.

I would have posted a picture of Claudine here, but my scanner wasn’t working. So instead, I am posting some images from the Web that have touched me and even moved me to tears. ***Warning: Some of them are quite visual, but they are just a small fraction of the reality Haitians are facing this very moment***

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I know that these are tough economic times here in the United States for many, but I hope you will find a way to join me in donating money to this cause, no matter which organization you choose. These people have absolutely nothing. And in the meantime, prayer is needed on so many levels: for the people of Haiti, for their leaders, for the relief workers, for the doctors and nurses and for the many who have gone unaccounted for.

A New Year, A New Beginning

Oh, 2009…what a rollercoaster you were!

In my first year in the photography business, I shot more than 20 weddings and several lifestyle sessions, attended two awesome workshops (one with the ultra-fab Kelly Moore and a one-on-one with the uber-talented Sean and Mel McLellan), and truly grew as a photographer. All of this in addition to working my day job, and I guess it’s understandable why 2009 flew by.

But my social and family life…well, they were sometimes nonexistent. I finally realized I just couldn’t do it all and no longer wanted to pretend that I could. I was completely humbled and encouraged at all of the feedback I received when I poured my heart out and just laid it all out on the table. You all gave me the grace and encouragement I desperately needed.

But with a new year comes a new beginning, a new chance at finding balance in my life. So, 2010 will bring some changes. Good changes. Lots of those changes will affect my business, but all of them will affect my life. For the better. And I believe they will make my clients happier, too. It’s all a win-win!

  • I have a brand new web site to reveal sometime soon. I can’t wait to show you all of the wonderful people and places I’ve shot this year. Honestly, the blog had to take a back seat to actually serving my clients and working on their images, so the new web site will feature some never-before-seen content. How exciting, right?
  • I’ll also be taking a limited number of weddings — two per month. This is not a total of 24 weddings, but a limit of two each month. So if I book only one in April, I won’t be making it up another month by booking three. Fewer weddings means I’ll be able to give more attention to my clients. And that makes me totally excited!
  • I plan on blogging a lot more in 2010. My blog has been super boring lately. Seriously. With the new year comes a a fresh start. So those of you who expressed interest in helping me with my concept shoots should be hearing from me sometime in February or March. And shortly thereafter, there should be plenty of eye candy gracing this blog again. I’d also love to know what topics you’d like me to write about. Leave a suggestion in the comments…who knows, I might just take you up on it!

I’m going to break one of my own rules and not post a picture with the blog. Because this blog post is all business. But coming up in the next week or so, I’ll be blogging sneak peeks of my Jamaican destination wedding as well as my last wedding of 2009. Check back soon!

Oh Christmas Tree, Oh Christmas Tree!

Goodness, I love Christmas. It’s always my favorite time of the year. But this year I just haven’t been able to get in the spirit. I don’t know if it’s how warm the weather was up until a few weeks ago, the fact that we’ve not had a measurable snow, the crowds of Scrooges at the stores or because I’ve been so busy. Does anyone else feel this way?

Once Tyler and I got back from our cruise a couple weeks ago, we put the Christmas tree up the next day. It’s something we love doing together every year. And it always makes me a little more merry. This year, Tyler put up the tree and lights and then I decorated it with all of our ornaments. Separately. So it wasn’t exactly the tradition we’re used to, but it got the job done.

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Some people like themed trees, but I just like the nostalgic ornaments. You know, the ones that you’ve had from childhood and have added to over the years. There is just so much emotional attachment to them, and it makes me happy to reflect on those Christmases from the past. My mother in law (hi, Lana!!) always gets us a new themed ornament every year (Tyler’s theme is drummer boy and when I came into the family, I chose gingerbread cookies), so it’s fun to know that we have at least one from each year Tyler and I have been married.

So I thought I’d share some of me and Tyler’s favorite ornaments.

For the first year we were married.

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One to celebrate our first-ever home.

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Celebrating our first year in our current home.

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I bought the next two at Target a few years ago. I just think they’re pretty.:)

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Our newest ornaments are too heavy to hang on the tree, so they sit on a table in the living room.

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Even Lola has her own ornament. I think we need to get her a new one, though…she was just a pup when this picture was taken!

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I wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas! May it be merry and bright.:)And for those of you who have a white Christmas…I’ll be quite envious. Nothing but rain here. Boo!